And, for good measure, get in the habit of cleansing anything you use sexually post-game too (you should be cleaning sex toys and keep in mind that we have to say goodbye to every good vibe ...
Well dear a good advice is to always use a condom on what ever u use especially for unsafe material. For a filler vegtables fruits etc. As natural subtitutes and easy to get rid off well. well there is also hot adhesive wax rods (wax gun rods) could be melted or u can cast your own platinum grade silicone sex toy of your preferred choice and design all u would need is a bit of artistic nature ...
As KelsC said, dildos are the safest, but I know that a lot of people use household items like cucumbers, bananas with the peel on, carrots, the ends of old toothbrushes, etc. before they have access to a dildo. If you haven't already, start with your fingers.
candles! if you work your bootie good, they get warm and adjust to it. sometimes i even prefer them over dildos.
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"Like olive oil, vegetable oil isn't ideal for vaginal penetration, but can be used by most people as an external vaginal or anal lubricant," Caitlin V. says. For sex toys: It's generally compatible with silicone, glass, and metal sex toys, according to Caitlin V. Just make sure you know what material your vibrator is made of, especially if you're using vegetable oil.
Well Baby oil works good, also Conditioner for your hair, (what i use when i get off, im a guy tho). Just be careful with it cause if it goes in the wrong spots it CAN burn. Banana with a condom / lube on it, (you CAN buy condoms) so just get one at the store when your alone, their not going to refuse to sell it to you. =) hope i helped.